Understanding Anxiety: What It Is, Why It Happens & How You Can Get Help
Understanding Anxiety: What It Is, Why It Happens & How You Can Get Help
Anxiety is something we all experience at times. A looming deadline, a difficult conversation, or a sudden change can trigger that flutter in your chest, racing thoughts, or uneasy feeling in your stomach. In small doses, anxiety is part of our survival system—alerting us to danger or motivating us to act.
But when anxiety becomes persistent, excessive, or starts to interfere with daily life—work, relationships, sleep—that’s when it can cross the line from “normal stress” to an anxiety disorder. Dr. Scott Jaffe specializes in evidence-based, compassionate anxiety treatment that addresses both the symptoms and underlying causes.
In this post, we’ll explore:
- What qualifies as an anxiety disorder
 - Common symptoms & warning signs
 - Why professional care matters
 - How anxiety is treated (therapy, medication, lifestyle)
 - What makes Dr. Jaffe’s approach especially helpful
 
What Makes Anxiety Into a Disorder?
Not all anxiety is bad—or disordered. But here are some signals that anxiety is more than just a temporary stress reaction:
- It’s persistent (lasting weeks, months, or longer), not just situational
 - It’s excessive—worrying about things far more than seems reasonable
 - It impairs your ability to function: interfering with sleep, concentration, social life, or work
 - It causes physical symptoms (racing heart, tension, sweating, stomach issues) that feel overwhelming
 
There are different types of anxiety disorders—Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), Panic Disorder, Social Anxiety, Specific Phobias, among others. Each has its own features, but all share the common thread of worry or fear interfering with life.
Common Symptoms & Signs
Anxiety shows itself in both mental and physical ways. Some of the more common signs include:
- Persistent, uncontrollable worry or fear
 - Feeling restlessness or being “on edge”
 - Fatigue, difficulty concentrating
 - Irritability
 - Muscle tension (especially neck, shoulders, jaw)
 - Sleep problems: trouble falling or staying asleep
 - Physical symptoms: racing heart, shortness of breath, dizziness, nausea, sweating
 - Avoidance behaviors: skipping social situations or tasks that provoke anxiety
 
It’s important to recognize your own patterns. The sooner you identify the signs, the sooner you can take meaningful steps toward relief.
Why Professional Help Can Be a Game-Changer
You might ask: “Can’t I just self-help my way out with meditation, apps, or lifestyle changes?” The answer is: those things help (and we’ll talk about them), but anxiety disorders typically benefit more when professional care is involved. Here’s why:
- Correct diagnosis
Anxiety symptoms overlap with many other conditions (thyroid issues, heart conditions, sleep disorders). A medical/psychiatric evaluation ensures you’re treating the right cause. - Tailored treatment
One size doesn’t fit all. Some people respond best to therapy, others to medication, and many to a combination. A provider can design a plan based on your history, medical status, and preferences. - Safety & monitoring
Medications for anxiety (antidepressants, anxiolytics, etc.) can have side effects. Under medical supervision, adjustments can be made to improve effectiveness and reduce risk. - Deeper support
Anxiety often ties into underlying issues—trauma, past stress, thought patterns. A professional can help you dig beneath the surface, rather than just masking symptoms. - Accountability & continuity
It’s easier to sustain progress when you have someone guiding you, tracking your progress, modifying your plan, and intervening early if things slip. 
Approaches to Anxiety Treatment
Treatment typically combines multiple strategies—mental, medical, behavioral. Here’s a breakdown:
1. Psychotherapy / Talk Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): The gold standard. Helps you identify negative or distorted thinking, challenge it, and replace it with more balanced thoughts.
 - Exposure Therapy / Behavioral Activation: Especially helpful in phobias or panic. You gradually face anxiety-provoking situations in a controlled way to reduce avoidance and fear over time.
 - Mindfulness-Based Therapies, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT): Teach you how to relate differently to anxious thoughts—accepting them rather than fighting or avoiding them.
 
2. Medications
When anxiety is more severe, medications can help as a stabilizing bridge while therapy takes effect. Common classes include:
- Antidepressants: SSRIs, SNRIs are frequently used for generalized anxiety, panic, etc.
 - Buspirone: Sometimes used for chronic anxiety.
 - Beta-blockers: Off-label for performance or situational anxiety, mostly for physical symptoms (racing heart) rather than generalized worry.
 - Benzodiazepines: Short-term or occasional use only (due to dependence risk), often reserved for acute anxiety.
 
3. Self-Help & Lifestyle Tools
These aren’t substitutes—but powerful companions to therapy + medication:
- Grounding & mindfulness exercises (e.g. 5-4-3-2-1 technique) to bring you into the present moment when anxiety spirals
 - Breathing exercises & relaxation techniques
 - Regular physical activity and movement
 - Adequate sleep & nutrition
 - Limiting caffeine, alcohol, and stimulants
 - Visualization / guided imagery to create mental safe spaces
 - Routine & structure to give stability to daily life
 
Why Dr. Jaffe’s Methods Work So Well
- Dr. Scott Jaffe blends medical insight with holistic care to treat anxiety in a comprehensive, patient-centered way. Here’s what sets this approach apart:
 
- Same-day / timely access: When anxiety flares, waiting can make it worse. Quick access means help when you need it most.
 - Integrated care: Anxiety often overlaps with other health issues—substance use, weight problems, chronic stress. Dr. Jaffe sees the big picture.
 - Medication management + therapy support: You get the benefit of both worlds—safe prescribing plus behavioral/therapeutic guidance (referrals or coordination).
 - Personalized treatment plans: No cookie-cutter protocols—your treatment is tailored to your history, strengths, and goals.
 - Ongoing monitoring and adjustments: As your symptoms change, so does your plan. That flexibility is key to long-term success.
 
Getting Started: What You Can Do Now
- Pay attention to your symptoms. Keep a log or journal—note what triggers your anxiety, how intense it becomes, and how long it lasts.
 - Reach out for help. If anxiety is hurting your sleep, relationships, job, or peace of mind, professional help can make a difference.
 - Take one small action today. Maybe try a brief grounding exercise, or schedule a consultation with Dr. Jaffe to explore your treatment options.
 
Final Thoughts
- Anxiety doesn’t have to define you. With the right combination of professional help, therapy, and self-care, many people experience reduction in symptoms and regain control of their lives. If you’ve been living with persistent worry, panic, or fear that interferes with daily life—even if you’ve tried things before—there’s hope.
 - Dr. Jaffe is ready to listen, diagnose, and tailor a plan that respects your journey. You don’t have to face anxiety alone—support is one call (or click) away. Visit our contact page now.
 

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